⭐ 4.94/5 from 81 verified couples ·
"Money well spent" · "Hubby shocked me by actually enjoying it"
The Card Game That Makes Long-Term Couples
Feel New Again
199 questions designed specifically for couples who already know each other — and want to go deeper.
Re-ignite the sparks and remember what makes your long-term relationship so special with {THE AND} Long-Term Couples Edition and experience new levels of depth and intimacy in your relationship.
Not just any card game. Built for couples with history.
Designed for depth, not small talk
Questions go beyond "what's your favorite movie." They surface dreams, fears, and unspoken feelings you've never thought to ask.
Works even if one partner is skeptical
76 out of 81 reviewers gave 5 stars. Husbands who "don't do this stuff" end up asking for another round.
Flexible format
One question over morning coffee. A full session on date night. Pull a card whenever. There's no wrong way to play
Enjoy deeper connection everyday.
One question can change a conversation you've had a hundred times.
Pull a card over morning coffee. Read one aloud before bed instead of scrolling. Use a full deck on your next anniversary trip. However you use it, {THE AND} creates the kind of conversation that makes you look at your partner and think — I didn't know that about you.
Frequently asked questions
The deck contains 199 prompts across emotional, relational, and intimate themes, including questions about future dreams, past experiences, unspoken needs, and relationship growth. Questions are designed specifically for couples with established history, not general icebreakers.
Most card games use generic questions that work for any two people. {THE AND} Long-Term Edition is built for couples who already know each other's basics, the questions go deeper into the parts of a relationship that go unspoken over time.
Yes. Over 93% of verified buyers gave it 5 stars, and many reviewers specifically noted that skeptical partners ended up enjoying it more than expected.
The Physical Deck is a premium boxed card set. The Digital Deck gives you instant access via digital download. The Physical + Digital Bundle gives you both — great for playing at home and on the go.
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My husband & I knew we needed more consistent connection but with 4 kids and busy jobs, we’re both so tired at night we just end up sitting on the couch & scrolling. On a whim I bought these cards thinking maybe conversation prompts would help. Over the past 2 weeks we have been in sync and connected like when we were first married!! I’m amazed at what I’m learning about him 14 years into our marriage. I’m telling all my married friends!
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This has helped my hubby and I dig a little deeper into things we wouldn’t have even thought to ask. Just. A wonderful way to create a deeper connection. Through honesty conversation
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This has been pretty good… Helps launch into good conversation, fostering connection
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Physical Edition
I am so excited to share this with my husband I can’t wait to see the conversations we share about our life love selves etx
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My hubby and I have only only played the Long-Term Couples Edition once since receiving them two weeks ago but I was pleasantly surprised that my hubby enjoyed it (I did too)! We asked 10 questions total on a Friday night. I can say that these cards were money well spent. Thank you, Skin Deep. I recommend these cards for anyone looking to deepen their relationship.
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Physical Edition
The cards have given us deeper insights into one another, especially since we are empty-nesters now. The conversations the cards have sparked have been excellent.
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Physical Edition
This questions are perfectly designed to have conversations with your partner. Put down the phone, and look at each other. We love it and are thankful for it. Game changer.
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Physical Edition
My husband and I purchased the cards and took them to Hawaii with us in celebration of our 17th wedding anniversary. Over candlelight, we asked each other the questions posed, and they were so provocative....that the answers provided the most soul-searching responses--that only brought us that much closer. THANK YOU soooooo much !!
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Physical Edition
Love it, Great Questions! my wife and I have been married for 35 years and these Questions are deep, and it highlights how much we care for each other's well being!!!
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I'm a self-publisher (Forever And A Day Publishing LLC) and I placed a card pack into the gift box of each contributing author couple in our first volume of our marriage anthology series, 'Marriage Stands, Commitment Wins: Vol. 1- Building a Strong Foundation.' In the gift box it was the print copy of the anthology, the coloring companion, crayons, colored pencils, a personalized note and either the Couples Edition or Long-Term Couples Edition - depending on the # of years the couple were married. Each couple shared they opened the cards immediately and have begun very intimate conversations!!! What a blessed gift. I will continue to add these card decks for the remaining four volumes! {THE AND} be on the lookout for my upcoming email!
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So far it’s been fun and challenging. We’ve gone through about 7 cards. The conversation between my spouse & myself has been great!
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I'm embarrassed to admit that my husband and I have probably only made it through 10 of these cards since opening the set... BUT here's the catch, we have collectively spent at least 6 hours on those 10 cards. COMPLETELY obsessed with the prompts, the phrasing of the questions, and the need to spend time connecting beforehand. We have been married 10 years and this helped me understand my husband a little bit better. Couldn't recommend enough!
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Physical + Digital Bundle
“Played” the first dozen cards last night for an enjoyable evening. After a small bit of anxiety from my wife due to its novelty, she commented on how very much she enjoyed the evening, afterward. She laughed out loud at my imitation of her when she’s hungry. It’s an opportunity to share happy memories that occurred decades ago and haven’t thought of since, but also to delve deeper into some underlying emotions you may or may not realize exist until you present the question. Went in with a light heart and was able to enjoy the unique questions and answers as they unfolded.
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I got these card for my husband and I. This is our second Valentine's Day married but our 10th Valentine's Day together! It felt like the perfect way to connect on a romantic day. We brought the cards to dinner and played during drinks and apps. At the end of the night we even picked the cards back up! We both agreed the questions weren't ones we would have come up with on our own. While answering the questions, we laughed and we had to think on each answer. Its a great exercise!
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I bought these for a married couple who has been married for 16 years and they said this:
Let them know we are really enjoying the cards. Has led to deeper conversations.
J
Great questions illicit great answers and that's what {THE AND} Long Term Couples Edition provides. We've laughed, we've cried, we've grown closer together, have explored some existing things in more depth and added some new ones. These cards help you take the relationship to the next level. My wife and I have been together a little over 11 years, married a little over 5 years and have found {THE AND} Long Term Couples Edition a most worthwhile endeavor
J
These cards were amazing and definitely gave us an amazing set of convos before we broke up. These cards are going to give you the best shot possible if you take them seriously
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this game got my long term boyfriend and I really getting deep, 10/10!
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My partner and I call our decks of {THE AND} cards “cry cards” because they always get us into deep conversation and into our feelings. They’re a great way to connect or reconnect, and we love them!
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Effective, hard but not threatening.
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I first learned about this game at a party among first time meeting acquaintances and loved how it brought out so much good conversation. I had to order for my home and want one for the family edition too.
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Great product