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"I’ve known Topaz for over a decade and 12 Questions for Love is a perfect example of the incredibly curious, open, and uniting person behind {THE AND}. These seemingly simple questions distill years of observations encouraging us to discuss what matters most and allow our relationships to thrive. It’s empowering and insightful, with heartfelt solutions to real-life problems, this is the book I wish I could’ve given to my younger self.” -Jodie Whittaker, actor."

In today’s info-saturated world, answers are easy to come by—but powerful, ‘connective’ questions are what we need more than ever. In this game-changing book, inspired by his award-winning film series, Topaz Adizes shares a dozen questions that can deepen and enrich the most important relationships in your life. Buy this book not just for yourself, but for the people you truly care about.”

Warren Berger

Bestselling author of “A More Beautiful Question

When we pose a question to someone we love and listen deeply to their reply, we not only learn, we deepen our human bond with them. In this moving book, Topaz Adizes gives us the profound gift of questions that will transform our relationships, and our lives, forever.

-- Jeff Wetzler

Author of Ask: Tap Into The Hidden Wisdom of People Around You (Hachette, 2024)

About 12 Questions For Love

An essential, inclusive guide to achieving deeper intimate connection—featuring a foreword by Your Body is Not an Apology‘s Sonya Renee Taylor.


Bravely explore the heart of your relationship through 12 proven questions with insight culled from 1,500 real conversations in The Skin Deep’s Emmy Award-winning documentary series.


When was the last time you asked your romantic partner a truly thought-provoking question that illuminated what was special about your connection?


This essential guide by the creator of The Skin Deep’s bestselling conversation decks unveils a powerful set of questions to spark meaningful conversations. These 12 questions—such as “What is the pain in me you wish you could heal?”—have been proven to nurture authentic intimacy and amplify joy in your relationship, regardless of age, gender, or sexuality.


Drawn from countless hours observing (and holding space for) intimate conversations unfold, author Topaz Adizes shows you how to be braver, go deeper, discover the profound power of vulnerability, and uncover the magic that awaits when you dare to ask the real questions. This book provides the path to feeling more connected with your partner than ever before.


The Author

By Topaz Adizes

Foreword by Sonya Renee Taylor

Perfect For

Those interested in personal and relationship health, growth, and conenction.

Book Details

Hardcover | $22.95

Published by Penguin Random House

Jan 02, 2024 

 224 Pages | 5-1/2 x 8-1/2 

ISBN 9781632174901