Can One Conversation Change Your Relationship Forever?

At The Skin Deep we believe that asking the right questions can transform relationships. 

For a decade we've been creating the space to explore and deepen human connection through intimate conversations. 

You’ve seen this magic in action on {The And} across social media and our Emmy-Award winning documentary.

Now, we're bringing everything we’ve learned together into one powerful set of questions for you and the most important person in your life.

Published by Penguin Random House in January of 2024.

Available for an extremely limited-time in 1 of 500 Supporter Packs!

12 Questions For Love: Supporters Pack

12 Questions For Love: Supporters Pack

Regular price $149.00 Sale price$99.00

Limited to 500 Packs

Discover the magic of {THE AND} and the lessons learned from over 10 years of incredible videos in this incredibly special offering from The Skin Deep. Be among the first in the world to get a copy of the book and a bundle of special bonuses only available in this extremely limited, early supporters pack.

Each Supporters Pack Includes:

  • 2 copies of the book when it launches.

One for you, one for a friend. Your books will be part of the first shipment after the launch in January 2024.

  • {The And} Postcards Bundle.

This special bundle of postcards will help you share the love and create connections with your friends and family. 3 postcard packs themed around gratitude, friendship and love.

  • {The And} Digital Toolkits

 An incredible collection of all of our digital toolkits and the ability to start experiencing better conversations and connections immediately after purchase.

  • Access to special launch events.

2 x confirmed tickets for the online launch event January 8th 2024 6pm PST, plus exclusive access to join the community pre-launch event. Meet other fans of The Skin Deep, connect with the filmmaking and production team. 

  • A special ‘sneak peek’ of the book

You'll get exclusive access to the first part of the book, in digital format, before anyone else!

  • A chance to win 1 of 12 signed and personally dedicated copies of the book by Founder of The Skin Deep, Topaz Adizes

An ultra-exclusive third copy of the book will be sent to select winners! Each of the 12 will be individually inscribed and dedicated by the author.

Strictly limited to only 500 packs and available for a limited-time for only $99 with free shipping.

Get yours before they sell out!  

When was the last time you asked your partner a truly thought-provoking question?

  • Do you yearn for a deeper connection with your partner? 
  • Are you concerned that being vulnerable may push your partner away? 
  • Do you want to have more intimate conversations but aren't sure where to start?

12 Questions for Love is your opportunity to create a deeper, more vibrant relationship with the person most important to you. An antidote to feeling misunderstood or disconnected.

You can also pre-order the book! Be among the first in the world to get your copy of the book when it launches Jan 2nd, 2024. 


12 Questions For Love

Your guide for creating intimate conversations that deepen connection.


When we pose a question to someone we love and listen deeply to their reply, we not only learn, we deepen our human bond with them. In this moving book, Topaz Adizes gives us the profound gift of questions that will transform our relationships, and our lives, forever.

Jeff WetzlerAuthor of Ask: Tap Into The Hidden Wisdom of People Around You (Hachette, 2024)

In today’s info-saturated world, answers are easy to come by—but powerful, ‘connective’ questions are what we need more than ever. In this game-changing book, inspired by his award-winning film series, Topaz Adizes shares a dozen questions that can deepen and enrich the most important relationships in your life. Buy this book not just for yourself, but for the people you truly care about.

Warren Berger- Bestselling author of “A More Beautiful Question

I’ve known Topaz for over a decade and 12 Questions for Love is a perfect example of the incredibly curious, open, and uniting person behind {THE AND}. These seemingly simple questions distill years of observations encouraging us to discuss what matters most and allow our relationships to thrive. It’s empowering and insightful, with heartfelt solutions to real-life problems, this is the book I wish I could’ve given to my younger self.

Jodie Whittaker, actor