Can One Conversation Change Your Relationship Forever?

At The Skin Deep we believe that asking the right questions can transform relationships. 

For a decade we've been creating the space to explore and deepen human connection through intimate conversations. 

You’ve seen this magic in action on {The And} across social media and our Emmy-Award winning documentary.

Now, we're bringing everything we’ve learned together into one powerful set of questions for you and the most important person in your life.

Published by Penguin Random House in January of 2024.

Available for an extremely limited-time in 1 of 500 Supporter Packs!

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When was the last time you asked your partner a truly thought-provoking question?

  • Do you yearn for a deeper connection with your partner? 
  • Are you concerned that being vulnerable may push your partner away? 
  • Do you want to have more intimate conversations but aren't sure where to start?

12 Questions for Love is your opportunity to create a deeper, more vibrant relationship with the person most important to you. An antidote to feeling misunderstood or disconnected.

You can also pre-order the book! Be among the first in the world to get your copy of the book when it launches Jan 2nd, 2024. 


12 Questions For Love

Your guide for creating intimate conversations that deepen connection.


When we pose a question to someone we love and listen deeply to their reply, we not only learn, we deepen our human bond with them. In this moving book, Topaz Adizes gives us the profound gift of questions that will transform our relationships, and our lives, forever.

Jeff WetzlerAuthor of Ask: Tap Into The Hidden Wisdom of People Around You (Hachette, 2024)

In today’s info-saturated world, answers are easy to come by—but powerful, ‘connective’ questions are what we need more than ever. In this game-changing book, inspired by his award-winning film series, Topaz Adizes shares a dozen questions that can deepen and enrich the most important relationships in your life. Buy this book not just for yourself, but for the people you truly care about.

Warren Berger- Bestselling author of “A More Beautiful Question

I’ve known Topaz for over a decade and 12 Questions for Love is a perfect example of the incredibly curious, open, and uniting person behind {THE AND}. These seemingly simple questions distill years of observations encouraging us to discuss what matters most and allow our relationships to thrive. It’s empowering and insightful, with heartfelt solutions to real-life problems, this is the book I wish I could’ve given to my younger self.

Jodie Whittaker, actor