Go Behind The Curtain &
Discover The Magic
Designed for anyone looking to go even deeper and elevate the relationships in their life, 12 Questions For Love is the ultimate collection of learnings from countless hours of conversations filmed by The Skin Deep for {THE AND}, resulting in your ultimate guide for conversations and relationships.
This essential guide includes:
- Powerful tools to create a safe, transformative space for connection
- 12 questions proven to nurture authentic intimacy, and examples from people who've been there
- Strategies for staying connected in the midst of conflict
- Confidence to craft better, stronger questions of your own (hint: you’ll get better answers)
SEE WHAT OTHERS HAD TO SAY
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I’ve been a long time fan of the {AND} conversation cards. I bought them originally to try to save my marriage, but unfortunately he was not willing to open up and hold space for these deeper conversations. I have since moved on and fell in love again, and it all started with the strangers deck.Throughout the last two years, we’ve played across several decks, and reading this book and the 12 questions, I realized that these were some of our favorite, connecting conversations. This also isn’t a one time conversation or question. You can refer back to this book and ask these at multiple points throughout the year and you might have different answers depending on what season of life you’re in, and I think that’s a beautiful thing.I loved getting to hear the backstory on how everything came together with this project. As an elopement filmmaker, it’s especially inspiring to be seeking that space “in between” in my filming, so I’m excited to not only apply this to my romantic relationships, but with my clients, as well as some of my friends.I’m also reframing how I think about asking questions since they dive into that in this book as well. This year I’m really focusing on deepening my relationships with others, and this book gives some very tangible tools to do so
J
I listened to Topaz on the Love Shack Live Podcast with Staci and Tom and I was immediately wanting to learn more about the 12 Questions for Love.
This is a great read and thought provoking and allows you to help understand your own emotions.
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Helps you see things from the other person's perspective
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amazing
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12 Questions for Love is a book for anyone interested in the multifaceted nature of love and connection. Topaz Adizes' thoughtful exploration and genuine approach make this book hard to put down and an enlightening read. I walked away with not just answers, but a newfound appreciation for the profound journey that is love and a better understanding of how to ask the right questions for meaningful connection in any relationship.
S
When I first saw this book come on my feed. It triggered my soul deep within. We don’t allow ourselves to deeply open and connect. I noticed that my partner and I had created this habit of not really diving deep into conversation and just living day to day. This book allowed me to crack open more and explore different topics of our aspirations and life. We are a work in progress but the supporting chapters of how to ask deeper questions is so insightful.
O
Deep conversations were always missing from my life. In the rare cases I had ones , it ended quickly because of shame, pain etc... With this book I actually learnt some lessons on how it can change. Thank you for this wonderful book...
L
This book offers helpful suggestions for conducting intimate conversations that might have really helped me in some of my previous relationships where I had difficulty communicating openly. At this point in my life, I feel like I have a better grasp on how to cultivate safety and share authentically, but I still got some useful tips from this book. I liked the 12 questions and the additional questions suggested in the back matter, as well as the suggestions on how to ask better questions in general. I also liked the diversity of conversational partners included in the examples, from friends and family members to spouses (both straight and gay).I was a bit frustrated with the introductory material. I enjoy memoirs, but I didn’t pick this up to read about the author’s journey—I just wanted to get to the questions. I’m glad I stuck with it though. I recommend this book for anyone interested in cultivating deeper connections with loved ones.I was provided an unproofed ARC through NetGalley that I volunteered to review.