⭐ 4.92/5 from real parents!
"I've spent thousands on therapy for my 7 year old child. This product was 100x more affective than all the therapy combined. No reason not to get this."
Real Conversations
With Kids Ages 8–13
Kids have more going on inside than they usually let on. The right question, asked at the right moment, opens a door you didn't know was there.
{THE AND} Kids Edition is designed specifically for children aged 8–13 and the adults who love them. 199 questions that spark imagination, build emotional intelligence, and create the kind of conversations that make kids feel genuinely seen.
Not a screen. Not a lesson. Just a card and a question, and whatever comes next.
Sparks Imagination
Questions that send kids' minds somewhere unexpected. "If you could add one person to our family, who would it be and why?" There's no right answer, just an invitation to think freely and share what's really going on in there.
Builds Real Social Skills
Every question is a chance to practice listening, expressing feelings, and understanding others. The skills that matter most, empathy, communication, emotional articulation — built naturally, one conversation at a time.
Strengthens Connection
The best thing about {THE AND} Kids Edition isn't what kids learn about themselves. It's what parents and kids learn about each other. These conversations build the kind of closeness that carries through the harder years ahead.
One Card. Any Moment. Real Connection.
Bath time. Car rides. Dinner. The five minutes before bed when they're finally still.
{THE AND} Kids Edition turns the small moments of everyday life into something your child will remember, and something you will too. Pull one card and see where it goes.
Win the battle against screen time not by taking something away, but by giving them something better.
FAQs
The deck is built specifically for children ages 8–13. Questions are crafted to be engaging and age-appropriate, imaginative enough for younger kids, substantive enough to hold the attention of preteens.
Absolutely. Teachers use it for morning circle, social-emotional learning time, and transition moments throughout the day. The questions work equally well one-on-one and in groups.
Most kids' card games are trivia or silly prompts. {THE AND} Kids Edition is built on the same methodology as the full {THE AND} line, questions designed to create genuine depth and real connection. They're fun, but they go somewhere.
The key is low pressure, pull a card in the car, at dinner, or before bed. Let it feel like something fun you're doing together, not a structured activity. Kids engage most when they feel like they're playing, not being asked to perform.
The questions are open-ended and imagination-based, which tends to work well for a wide range of kids. There are no wrong answers and no pressure, children can answer as much or as little as they want.
Both. The questions are written for kids but designed to be answered by everyone at the table. Parents often find themselves answering alongside their children, which is exactly the point.
C
I have 3 children ages 3,5, and 7. They found this so exciting and we “play” a few times a week. They truly enjoy it. I love learning them and they love to share! If you’re having difficulties communicating with your children, I HIGHLY advise. If only we knew the RIGHT questions. Thank you 🙏🏽 truly grateful.
M
Physical Deck
I've spent thousands on therapy for my 7 year old child. This product was 100x more affective than all the therapy combined. No reason not to get this.
s
10/10 recommend. You’d be surprised the impact these cards have
C
Physical + Digital Bundle
This game is a simple, super way to connect with your kids, even teenagers! We have gotten to know each other on a different level, and it is so heart warming to be able to do that with a15 year old ❤️
N
Bought to help connect with 3 younger kids and help them to begin learning better connection and conversation skills in a fun and safe way. They really worked! We had such great conversations and the kids really got a chance to think deeper and answer thoughtfully. Definitely recommend.
S
I got this pack among a few others as a family gift to share with my partner and his 7yo daughter for Christmas. The 7 year old loves it, she's still learning to read but we were so impressed with how well she could read the cards (kudos to the question writers!), and sitting around the table together taking turns asking each other questions is something she now requests that we do often and is excited to do with her friends as well. Great screen-free option for enjoying time together!
N
I own 3 decks from {The And} and use it with my co-workers, friends, and family.
I bought this one to be able to facilitate deeper conversations with my kids- they work great for sitting around the table for dinner and even chit-chat during bath time. Well done team- have loved every question I pulled out so far.
V
Bought the {THE AND} Kids Edition for my daughter to foster open communication between us and to help her express feelings more. One concern is, she noticed the middle finger symbol on the back of the card. Given that these are for kids, a peace sign might be more appropriate. But overall, we are enjoying it.
R
My daughter & I talked about some deep issues. Knowing how she felt was much needed to know.
W
My son loves it, hes 8 years old, he understands the purpose and actually asks for it every night before bed. Instead of 12 cards, we play 3-4 cards each since he has to read for several minutes before bed. Its great. Thank you!
T
{THE AND} Kids Edition
J
I love everything you guys make!